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Converse with Everything

By Christian McEwen

The British naturalist Roger Deakin spent most of his life in Suffolk, in a beautiful rambling house called Walnut Tree Farm, originally built in 1550. Not long before he died, he recorded a sound-portrait called “The House” for the BBC. In it, you can hear the wind in the trees surrounding the house, the kiss and slurp of raindrops on a distant roof. A door creaks open and then clashes shut. Everything is audible and alive, from the hiss and crackle of the new-laid fire to the chittering voices of the chimney swifts and the reverberating sound of their wings. Mice scurry in the wainscot, owls hoot overhead. You hear the awkward, abrupt croak of a pet crow.

The Japanese believe there are gods to be found everywhere, in scrolls and screens and tatami mats, a pair of winter boots, a tufted quilt. Human speech, in other words, is only part of a much larger, more expansive conversation. It behooves us to commune properly with our possessions, says the organizing guru, Marie Kondo. She herself greets her house each time she comes home, grateful for its continuing shelter and protection. 

Nor is she alone in this. 

The botanist Robin Wall Kimmerer describes a Turkish student whose grandmother taught her to thank the rafters and the woolen blankets every night. “If a single grain of rice fell to the ground, we learned to pick it up and kiss it,” she told Kimmerer. Carl Jung used to greet each of his cooking utensils when he entered the kitchen—the saucepans and pots and frying pans, the battered kettle. He saw them as “old acquaintances with whom to chat in the solitude of his retreat.”

In Great Expectations, Charles Dickens describes his hero, Pip, lying awake in bed, listening to “those extraordinary voices with which silence teems. . . . The closet whispered, the fireplace sighed, the little washing-stand ticked, and one guitar-string played occasionally in the chest of drawers.”

 “I tell my students: Don’t merely describe things—let them get to you,” said the poet Léonie Adams. “And, if you’re lucky, they’ll start to whisper some of their secrets to you.” She urged her young writers to listen with special care. “You have to develop a very keen ear to catch what they will have to say.”

"Talk" by Gökhan Tok 
translated from the Turkish by Yusef Eradam

You never hear it
but at breakfast the sweetest talk
is between the jam and the honey.  

How to proceed:

I have taught versions of this lesson at a number of places, including the Zen Mountain Monastery in Upstate New York, Williams College, MA, and an ongoing poetry-and-meditation class I conduct via Zoom each Thursday night. I am always moved and impressed by the detail that emerges, as in these examples from student writing:

a horse shaking its traces
Grandpa’s laugh
the chickadee in the garden, its call like gold ribbons

One woman wrote a poem on “listening to the hum of my being,” another reported practicing her piano “with an audience of stacked canned goods.”

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If the focus is on remembered or imagined sounds, it is easy to complete the assignment within an hour, drawing on the stories given above and quoting as suits you from Roger Deakin, Marie Kondo, Robin Wall Kimmerer, Carl Jung, and Charles Dickens. Ask your students if they have ever listened to sounds like that or explored how it might be to talk back to their possessions. 

You can also introduce the notion of “drawing sounds”—sending everyone outside to listen and finding ways to represent what they hear—

the wind in the long branches
a passing plane
the drone of cars on the highway
water gurgling, ice melting, a silky swish

—and then coming back inside to find words for what they’ve heard, focused on conversations with the other-than-human world. Read and celebrate!

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Here is a sample student poem written by Debra Hoyle.

One Night 

lullabies remembered in the small house
me bundled into the hand-me-down bed
drifting to sleep
 muffled sounds of voices
Dad watching The Tonight Show
chuckling now and then
Johnny and Ed bantering
radiators bring up heat
from the big green furnace below
there’s the tapping
the rolling tapping
in my room and all the tidy rooms around me
falling off into dreams
feeling held by these sounds
and by voices in discussion
Mom and Dad reviewing the day
without hearing the words said
I knew they’d figure it out
in the smoking days
the sound of a match being struck
followed by a quick blowing out
or Mom shaking the match
 loose onyx stone in her ring clicking
the partnered whiff of sulfur
momentarily here, suddenly gone
my dog on the rug
yelping in his sleep
chasing pheasants, rabbits
within the arms of these sounds I fell
until from the depths
abruptly called up to the surface
my Mother screaming
as if fighting for her life
a soft moan and then
the air thick with silence
floor creaks, Father goes in to check
 heart pounding, the only sound filling my ears
not moving, hardly breathing
until lullabies emerge once more
the dog softly breathing
the tapping of the radiators
and sleep calls me back again

Here is another student piece written by Ruby Lawrence.

Thoughts While Meditating 

Sound washes over my body in waves,
I feel my insides
pulsating softly.

I try to breathe
like a mountain—

but that’ll never work,
I understand now, until
I earn to leave that word,

try

behind.

And give my body and my mind away.

So that it doesn’t matter,
the words being said,
because I’m listening
to the hum of my
being.
                                              
watching two ripples bump
into each other
on still water
is a pleasure like
none I’ve ever felt

it fills my body full
of small happiness,
remind me
to listen and
to love

Footnotes:

GökhanTok: The Flag of Childhood: Poems from the Middle East (Aladdin Paperback, imprint of Simon & Schuster, NYC, 1998),  p.65, selected by Naomi Shihab Nye.

Roger Deakin: “The house,” narrated by Roger Deakin (BBC, 2004), https:www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b00t0zmo.

Ken Worpole: “Roger Deakin: Writer and film-maker, he connected with the British landscape by swimming across it,” The Guardian, August 29, 2006.

“The Japanese believe . . .”: Marie Kondo: Spark Joy: The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up (Ten Speed Press, 2015), p. 277. My friend, the writer Edite Cunha, loved this notion. “I hear my bed calling me throughout the day,” she told me. “I say, ‘I’m coming, I’ll be there, I promise!’”

Matthew Fox tells a story of a car mechanic who was depressed by his work until a Sufi teacher advised him to say “Allah” each time he turned the ratchet. The man did so. “Now, I love my work. I love cars. They are alive,” he said. “A car will tell you, if you listen deeply enough, whether it wants to be repaired or simply to be left alone to die.” Philip Shepherd: New Self, New World: Recovering Our Senses in the Twenty-First Century (North Atlantic Books, Berkeley, CA), p.237.

“If a single grain of rice . . .”: Robin Wall Kimmerer, Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge, and the Teachings of Plants (Milkweed Editions, 2013),  p.189.

“old acquaintances . . .”: Miguel Serrano, C.G Jung and Hermann Hesse: A Record of Two Friendships (Daimon, 1966), translated by Frank MacShane, p. 98.

“those extraordinary voices . . .”: Charles Dickens, Great Expectations (Barnes & Noble Classics, 2003), p.354.


Christian McEwen is a writer and workshop leader who lives in Williamsburg, Massachusetts. She has published a number of books including World Enough & Time: On Creativity and Slowing Down, now in its eighth printing, and Sparks from the Anvil: the Smith College Poetry Interviews. She is currently working on a book called In Praise of Listening. You can reach her at www.christianmcewen.com or www.legaltenderplay.com.

Photograph of Christian McEwen by Joanna Eldridge Morrisey


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